Melissa’s Place

Welcome! This is my place to say what I want to say, what I need to say, and what I believe will help others. I am an ENTP personality. Don’t worry, I’ll explain later. Basically, I’m a visionary. I seek information like a heavy smoker seeks out the next puff. I’m very logical, if you can make logical sense of it, then I can accept it. I call my religion “Unorthodox” I believe in God, but I do not believe in organized religion.

I crave people. Not in the way that I want a thousand people in my life. But in a way that I want to know about their’s! I want to hear their stories, soak up their knowledge, and see them evolve. The human race is an interesting species. We all seek out companionship, and yet we purposely hurt and push one another away.

I want to lift others! My life was a rollercoaster, and now that the rollercoaster has somewhat stabilized, I want to help others get off the crazy cycle. I know what it feels like to hit rock bottom. I know how it is to be judged, mostly by myself. I know the feeling of loss and hopelessness. I have crawled from the ashes of my own demise, and I am here to help anyone who would like to do the same.

I believe God helps those who help themselves and while I’m happy to advise I don’t do handouts. I don’t hold punches often, but I do have a heart. I will say what you need to hear, not what you want to hear. I will hold you will you cry, hand you a tissue, then tell you to suck it up because we’ve got work to do. I’m overly sensitive at times, and yet I can be stone cold at others.

ADHD is an understatement. I’m easily distracted and as much as you will hear me preach about organization and planning, I am the worst at both. However, just because I’m not good at something, doesn’t mean I can’t see the value in it.

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I will never quit or give up on myself and as long as you are around me (and your door is open), I will never allow you to either. I can be overwhelming, but with good intentions. I am an all or nothing type of person. I stopped apologizing for being me many years ago. Take it or leave it, this is who I am.

Having said that, I also believe I am a never-ending progress. I don’t think there ever comes a point in life where I have nothing more to learn. My final lesson will be on my dying day when I finally get to learn what’s really on the other side. Life is all about lessons, opportunities, and adventure! Don’t be scared to live! Make your opportunities, don’t wait for them! And never let a mistake hold you back, let it be the reason you don’t fail again!

Feel free to contact me anytime. I am a full-time mother of three and my husband works crazy hours. I will always get back to you, but sometimes I get distracted (gotta love that ADHD) so please don’t ever take it personal if I don’t get back to you right away. Comment, tell me about you! Don’t be a stranger, and don’t be afraid to just be yourself around me.

I hope you find peace and laughter at my place. You are always welcome, and I hope you find what ever it is you need to get you to a place of happiness and triumph. I want to see you learn, I want to see you grow, and I want to see you find healing while you’re here. This is my place, and it is meant to be a place of reality checks mixed with a little bit of sarcastic humor (Did I mention I’m overly sarcastic? lol) and a LOT of love. Come by anytime, and never leave without saying goodbye.

Yesterday is gone, the future is not written, so today is what we must live for!




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